the copulating pisshead of brunswick

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As Dickens wrote in A Tale of Two Cities, ‘It was the best of times, it was the worst of times’, and that’s how I feel about my years of drinking. Yes, I had some monumentally great nights but equally, I had some nights that I’ll regret for the rest of my life.

I was fourteen the first time I got drunk on Merrydown cider in my home town of Blairgowrie, Scotland. The carnival, or ‘the shows’ as we called them, were in town for Braemar Night; an eclectic festival of Scottish culture but for teenagers…

… a night to get very, very drunk and puke up on your brand new trainers.

We bought our cider from a dodgy florist on the high street and went down the river to get pissed and smoke Embassy Blue cigarettes.

The riverbank was teaming with Thatcher’s disaffected youth and the cider flowed as free and deep as the River Ericht. A lad, who will remain nameless, shocked us all by pulling out a tub of Bostik adhesive, depositing a large dollop in a plastic bag and pumping said bag until he passed out in a ditch. He went on to become a successful welfare cheat and moved to Spain.

Four hours later, I was puking my guts up all over my bed while my mate, Sqweak (this is not a typo, it was the 8Os) drunkenly explained to my mum and dad that I’d eaten a dodgy hot dog bought from a ‘mink’ (derogatory term for a gypsy). Of course, my parents didn’t buy Sqweak’s bullshit and imposed various embargoes on my life.

But that first night of drunkenness made its mark. Since the age of fourteen I have always drunk alcohol like this. Never in moderation but until I keel over, blackout or end up on somebody’s couch, disgraced, guilty and dehydrated.

I can go without a drink indefinitely but one sniff of the barmaid’s apron and I need to drink myself into a stupor. Alcoholism has no single definition. The Hollywood version is all about drinkers getting up and pouring a sneaky dram of whisky into their coffee or downing a beer before breakfast. The reality is far from this.

Alcoholism has a sliding scale and there are many forms of alcohol abuse, down to the person who only drinks on Friday’s after work but really craves that drink from noon to 5 pm, and knocks back that first pint like the elixir of life. Habitual drinking is, by definition, a problem with alcohol but a more socially acceptable form of alcoholism.

So why have I decided to give it all up and jump on the wagon of righteousness that’ll take me to the land of milk and honey where I’m likely to become diabetic?

Well, apart from a recent health scare at a gym, you just know when it’s over.

Think about that time you woke up, rolled over, saw your partner sleeping like a baby and thought, ‘fuck me, I don’t love you anymore’. I’ve done the same thing. Rolled over, saw the drool cascade out of the bottle’s mouth, smelt its acrid morning breath and thought, ‘fuck me, I don’t love you anymore’.

I used to think that death, destruction and tragedy were sexy and, don’t get me wrong, they are, but they come at a price. I think about all the times I was drunk and threw caution to the wind, walking blindly into oblivion and potential incarceration and they were real moments of cinematic invigoration. But imbibed delusion began to get in the way of actual progress and, instead of writing my books, plays and poems; I was simply living the undocumented version of them.

Yes, living life to the fullest is, or should be, incredibly important to a writer but as long has he/she writes it down. Just living a writer’s life does not make you a writer. Adoring Charles Bukowski does not make you a writer. Writing inspired sentences on a page makes you a writer. Hard work and perseverance makes you a writer. I stopped being a writer and became a drinker living like a writer, and that is not enough.

I’m miserable when I’m not writing and drink to medicate this disappointment. I drink in my flat and watch shows like Bored to Death. I meet people down the pub and, in the words of Beirut, ‘we drink to die’ in that romantic but delusional way. But, as I said, this is no longer enough.

I had this epiphany on the Sandringham train on the fourth of July and, irony aside, it’s time to act upon it or I’ll hit fifty and find myself living in a room above a pub with a broken laptop, burst capillaries and a head full of mixed memories, garnished with disappointment and a loose bowel. This frightens me. Scares me half to death.  And…

… I think about Braemar Night, 1984 and the river and the drunk teenagers and walking through the streets of Blairgowrie like the idiot prince, wearing a new pair of Puma trainers I bought with my paper round money. And I feel nostalgic, I really do.  But what’s important about nostalgia is that it belongs in the past and now it’s time to move onto the next stage of my life, the stage where I don’t wake up and fear the consequences of my actions. So…

On this day, the 16th of July 2014, I get up and just get on with making it better.

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About callumrscott

I am a Learning Consultant and writer, who oscillates between being elated and very angry and sometimes both at the same time. I have been studying many forms of masculinity for almost 15 years now, in particular, hyper and protest masculinity. My other main field of research is transgression or the rituals of transgression and the performative nature of this behaviour. Apart from researching and developing eLearning solutions, I enjoy a good pint and I live in a flat in Brunswick, close to my favourite place, Barkly Square. My greatest disappointment in life is that my first memory turned out to be a lie. I didn’t lose a red wellie on a beach in Orkney and now I have no first memory, just a lot of stories about alcohol and bad decisions. Take it. All the best - Callum R. Scott

19 responses to “the copulating pisshead of brunswick”

  1. Fluffytail says :

    Powerful and shows determination. With you all the way. You won’t regret this.

  2. sqweak says :

    You still owe me £4.75 for the cider!

    • callumrscott says :

      Would you like me to send you a postal order Sqweak!? I still remember that night and the day after, when my old man made me walk around Knockie, and I puked my guts up the whole way round!

  3. hildarian says :

    So good! Well done Callum.

  4. Graham St John says :

    Great post. I look forward to seeing you write more in this new era.

  5. finchscott says :

    Shit mate, I don’t know what to say. You are a fucking legend. I cannot describe the respect something as bold as this deserves.

    Good on you. Big time.

    Love you always,

    Ninny

    Date: Wed, 16 Jul 2014 03:24:04 +0000 To: nellyninny@hotmail.com

  6. finchscott says :

    And the photo is a beauty. Reminds of Limo!

    Date: Wed, 16 Jul 2014 03:24:04 +0000 To: nellyninny@hotmail.com

  7. Linda says :

    The savings will be monumental! What’s your fin plan???

  8. Lee Kofman says :

    Callum, now I finally understand why you, with all your tremendous writing talent – and I mean it – haven’t published a book yet. But I know you will. Good on you! I do know how sexy indeed destruction and tragedy are and so even more respect your decision. Hang in there!

    • callumrscott says :

      Yes, too many nights on the sauce have got in the way of literary progress Lee. But now the bottle has been shelved the productivity will begin! Thanks for reading and thanks for your words of encouragement, always appreciated.

  9. spagboljaffles says :

    Callum, I am stunned that a Brunswick local could even contemplate leaving booze behind during such a miserable winter, and hope you are faring well two and a half weeks (if that’s right?) in.
    A tea-pot and a hot-water bottle may help in terms of evening comfort and maintaining taut pint-forearms. And there is still weed, right?
    This talk of gym business, on the back of running Princes Park is a bit concerning though. What’s next, lycra and two wheels?
    Thanks for this piece, and looking forward to the next.
    Crack on!

    • callumrscott says :

      Hey Spiltwine – It’s an absolute travesty of justice that I can’t drink away the winter chills this year! However, I am faring well and my body is feeling the benefits of a less excessive lifestyle. Given up weed as well but I haven’t smoked much of that for years, so I’m left with green tea, yoga and work. I will be avoiding lycra at all costs and bicycles. Glad you enjoyed the piece and I always look forward to your comments. Cheers – Callum

  10. Seymour Brighton says :

    Hows your shiny new life going?

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